Pride Week

It’s rare that I talk about anything going on at my school. Usually, I just let whatever is happening happen. After all, no matter how annoying some of the people can be, I will likely not have to see them again after May 30th. But today is different. Today thereisan issue I want to talk about very much.

That issue is pride week.

Pride week, or LGBT+ week, is something my high school decideed to do in order to celebrate what they’re calling “Diversity Month.” The point behind Diversity Month is to celebrate how we’re all different, but still one school (at least that’s my understanding of it). I was honestly delighted when I heard about this, because I am all about celebrating the fact that we are all different but still human. Better yet, the school is trying to show that it’s a safe space for everyone, no matter who you are, what your sexuality is, or what your gender is.
Pride week, however, feels like a disaster. It seems like no one is taking any of this seriously. In fact, people are being nothing but mean, hateful, and disrespectful. 

For example, the school hung up the pride flag and the equality flag in the commons area. Could the people who didn’t like the fact that the flags were up just leave them alone? Apparently not, because a couple of students tried to take the flag down. They didn’t succeed and I guess they got yelled at, but the fact that they even tried upset me enough to actually express my feelings about something for once. 

You’d think that something like pride week would bring people together, but in my opinion, it has only made the seperation between people in my school worse. I don’t know if it’s homophobia or just immaturity causing people to act like this, but it’s all getting on my nerves. I cannot believe how much hate there is in this world, at this school. There have been so many people who have been murdered or assaulted or driven to depression, driven to self harm, even driven to suicide, just because they wanted to be who they are and love who they love. I honestly don’t understand how this hate exists. I understand that as a human being, you have a right to your opinion, but why would you choose to be hateful?

I was originally writing this article as a rant, because I was angry and didn’t have anyone to talk to about it other than strangers on the internet. But now I’m just sad. Sad and disappointed, because of how some people are so hateful and disrespectful and can’t seem to treat those who are different from them like fellow human beings.

After all, so what if the pride flag and the equality flag are hanging up? Just because you don’t like something, that doesn’t mean you need to be disrespectful. It doesn’t mean you need to try to take them down. And it doesn’t mean it needs to get to a point where the school has to move the flags to a locked display case so that no one can get to them. You aren’t cool for hating the LGBT+ community. You aren’t cool for trying to take our flags down. You aren’t cool for being a hateful person. You want to be cool? Then be a nice person. Make someone smile. Make a difference. There is enough hate in the world as it is, don’t add to it. Being hateful isn’t cool and it never will be.

Nomophobia

Before I even start this article, I want to ask you, dear reader, what you are reading this on. Your computer? Your phone? Your tablet? Maybe even your watch? How much time exactly do you spend glued to your screen, no matter what device it is? Odds are, a lot. According to an article by The Huffington Post, people spend an “average of five hours a day” on their phones. That’s about one third of the time people are awake! I, myself, am guilty of being on my phone most of the time. And unless you don’t have a phone, it’s more than likely that you are, too.

We are slaves to our phones, our technology. When was the last time you went anywhere without taking your beloved cell phone with you? I know people that even bring their cellphones to the bathroom with them. They literally cannot be a moment without them. We have a fear of being without our phones, a fear Scientific American calls “nomophobia.” According to this same article, being without a phone can cause “feelings of anxiety” in some people. And these days, it’s easy to see why. After all, we feel like we need to use our phones for everything. To-do lists, planners, clocks, timers, reading, learning, fun, dating, communicating. Whatever we feel we need to do, there’s an app for it.

According to a study done by researchers for The Huffington Post, people check their phones “an average of 85 times a day.” At first, I couldn’t believe this. That number seemed way too large. Then I thought about it. I’m a high school senior going to a large school. I nearly collide with people every day, because they are too busy staring at their phones to look where they’re going. Even I have been guilty of doing this at times and every time I catch myself I nearly die from embarassment. 

At school, I feel so bad for the teachers who are constantly having to tell their students to put their phones away, and even worse for the teachers who have completely given up on telling them to put their phones away. You tell a student to give you their phone nowadays and they’ll laugh at you. Tell them again, and they’ll tell you that they’d rather go to the principal’s office and get a detention than give you their phone.

I was once sitting in English class when a girl asked a question. The teacher was happy to answer this question, as teachers often are. After all, teachers want us to learn. But you could tell how unhappy the teacher was when, while this teacher was in the middle of answering her question, the girl took out her phone and started scrolling through what I could only assume were her messages.

Why are we so glued to our phones? Why are we at a point where there is such a thing as nomophobia? Can the people of our society even survive a day without their phones anymore? Please tell me what you think in the comments below. 

And while you’re at it, go for a walk. No phone, no earbuds, just the fresh air and the sounds of the outdoors. Unplug for once.